Traylee - It's really hard having a newborn no matter how good they are or how much help you have. Just remember she is still really young and getting used to the world. It will get easier. In the meantime it is fine to cry and hand her to someone else for a while. Phoebe is a really good baby, especially after Tiana was so difficult, but I forgot how much they need to just be held - for no other reason then they want to feel close to you. Nothing much gets done around the house and your other children don't get as much attention. With the settling, talk to your health nurse - they might give you some new ideas. Wrapping can help too. Also if she wants to sleep on your chest, let her. We do that with Phoebe when she is unsettled at night, I prop myself up with pillows and sleep with her. Babies don't develop sleep assiciation till after 12 weeks so don't worry about spoiling her!

Vent away and just remember that it will get better in time!!!