Hi MissMagpie - we must have been posting at the same time, lovely to hear from you. OMG re your nephew, you most definitely did the right thing, poor boy he can't live like that. There would be lots of foster carers who could give him a better chance at life, I have friends who do foster caring and they see things like that all the time, it's just so sad. Keep us posted with what happens. Now I have a child I just can't fathom having my child living in squallor so to speak, not that she can help it I know but you know what I mean. Lucky he has you. As for Trent, is he going through a growth spurt as that's what Amelia did the other week after sleeping 6 hours she went back to 3. She's back to 6/7 again now thank goodness, I don't demand feed though, never have really, I do parent led feeding which put her into a routine from the beginning, doesn't work for everyone but it did for us.....well so far so good. Keep at it, he will get there. I find Amelia only cat naps during the day now so I get nothing done, can't win!