Hi Shayna - lol a 3rd wow!! We'll be going back for seconds but that will be it for us, I'm too old to have a 3rd lol. Don't think I'd have the patience either to be honest as I'd have to have them all close together. Has Abbey been through her Wonder Week 19 yet? I'm going through it atm, Amelia is sleeping well at night so far but is hard work during the day, very clingy, whingey, hungrier than usual - she's not lasting the 4 hours and sometimes I'm feeding her every 2.5/3, cries unless being held, wants to be kept amused....it's bloomin hard work! I can't wait until it's over. Oh and as for the money thing, I hear you, I'm in admin as well, I only got 2 months pay but my maternity leave ends in October, I can go back parttime if I want but I have to talk to the first. I'm not sure I want to go back but I miss the pay packet, I work in Oil and Gas so it's good money. I am going to ask if I can work from home a couple of days as I know someone else is but not sure they can do that as admin. Will ask though, hacking on the train into the city every day doesn't interest me anymore! We are going to try for number 2 at the end of the year anyway so not sure it's worth it, will see how I feel closer to the time. I might be hanging to go back then but at the moment I can't imagine leaving Amelia. Oh and I get nothing from the Govt...besides the baby bonus, I don't qualify for the family benefit payment, we earn too much apparently. I'm with you on it, out of principle it sux because I've been working for 20 years and paid my taxes, I've never been on the dole or anything, when it comes to my turn it's too bad.....scummy so and so's. I understand if I earn too much but technically I'd rather them use my share for something good not give it to those who p it up against the wall on drugs and alcohol etc!

Woops, sorry I've rambled again, best go, Amelia has just had a feed and sitting on my lap while I type, she's facing the pc with my chin on her head lol. Can't be good for her but it's the only way I can get it done at the moment. It's 11.00 am and I haven't even had a shower!!!!