I was looking for this thread and every time i tried i couldn't find it

Hun your doing such an amazing job, i can't imagine life without my parents and i think it would be expected that you be a little upset/angry with not knowing sooner.
Please don't be hard on yourself and allow yourself time to grieve, be angry and upset.

Re: M's ears, i know you would only make the best decision for her based on all the knowledge you can muster, i hope it all goes well for her.

once i have a new car and DP's back at work we MUST get together and catch up

AFM: Ava is TTing during the day, she's already reached 10 stars on her potty chart in 3 days, a couple of slight accidents but she's quite keen on going and only wants to wear knickers.
She wants to wear them to bed but we say NO for now, will wait a bit longer and get a matress protector etc etc

She's quite the little adventurer/ handful at the moment, everything is 100% go go go, from motorbikes to animals to 'helping' to tantrums, you name it it's a HUGE production on her behalf.
She's quite good with Z but they are both testing me of late.

I am enrolling ehr into 3yr old kinder for next year, we went and looked at 1 and she didn't want to leave, she actually CRIED when we did and all she wants is a kinder bag and a lunchbox and to play with the kids.

How is everyone else?