Dory - I'm so happy to hear HB is doing better weight-wise, what a fabulous job you're doing!

Wite - good on you re dinner & friends, awesome way to go I think!

Re DTD, we haven't yet but DH raised the topic... and my first thought was oh I'm sure we can do that for some reason or other how sad is that! Like Dory, we had a bit of time out during the PG for many reasons, so I guess we'd better get back to it at some stage (gee could I sound less interested? mwahaha).

Fuzzy - it's so horrible when they cry like that isn't it. Such a steep learning curve these babies... even the second time round!

Buzzie - GL with house hunting & I'm glad little Bella is going well

Kirsten - there can be a lot of stuff lurking re miscarriages I agree, I hope talking it through helps you.

AFM well it's all chaos here. Tonight for the third time ever I got a silent migraine - basically vision disturbance & lots of pins & needles. Had it at the start of the PG and ended up in ED cos I don't usually have migraines (had once before 15 years ago) and they thought it was cos of the PG or a fall I'd had. So I have no idea what set me off but of course it was right at dinnertime, A was screaming, X was trying to eat dinner, DH was trying to organise everything and I couldn't see properly! I've also got a head cold, so i have a headache but not a migraine headache IYKWIM (thank goodness) but geez I'm still feeling lousy. Plus A has been on & off inconsolable and was SCREAMING her head off poor little darling. I don't know whether it's colic or the reflux meds not quite enough... i still can't believe how different she is to my DS. Everythign I did with him so doesn't work for her. And just when I think we have everything under control & we've worked out how to do everything then it seems to fall apart again. Plus she was spewing heaps on Fri... seriously had all 3 of us covered in spew on fri morning & I think all up 5 changes of clothes in an hour (some mine, some hers, and even DS's top!), lordy no wonder I have so much washign to do. My sleepywrap really needs a wash but I'm using it so much... might need a second one bwahaha. I'm finding I can't nap at all in the daytime just cos she's so unsettled. I think I reached the delirious stage on thurs night, just too many days in a row with not enuff sleep. Then Thurs & Fri night were a bit better luckily before i went completely bonkers.

Deana - saw on FB that poor little Blake has reflux I'm so sorry to hear it I really hope the mylanta helps a bit. And if you do end up trying zantac, if that doesn't work, losec is another option too. I hope you're getting some relief for both of you - reflux is just such a PITA! I don't know why my GP didn't put A on mylanta first, he just went straight to Losec - whatever works I guess.

Hi to everyoen I missed.