Arte - I had a look through the girls clothes - and I haven't got much that would keep A warm either! What did you end up buying in terms of a sling?
That's good that your dh can see what life is really like for you. Bummer about your shopping trip, but lovely that someone saw you were in need of some help and offered.

pap - poor J I hope he's feeling better real soon - I used to find that whenever my dh would have to go away somewhere - one of the girls would get sick. It's not much fun having to deal with it by yourself. I'm taking Jess to the doctor at 3:30 this arvo.