I am very open to suggestions for the night wakings, it is getting crazy. Last night there was a queue for my attention. When W came in while I was settling A I suggested he go back to bed and I would be there in a few minutes and he just says "no thanks, I will just wait here for you mum", then he stands quietly beside the bed for 5-10 minutes until A is asleep again. DH can't put him back to bed because he launches straight into a tantrum. A sleeps for the first couple of hours (if I am lucky) and then wakes every hour for the rest of the night. I just want some sleep!

JM, don't know what to suggest about the poo thing (although I did have a little giggle at her sneaking outside). I assume you have tried different systems like a potty or the big toilet seat insert? How is your brother doing now? I have no idea why anyone furnishing a house would provide a white couch! Crazy!

Clare, sorry to hear about your Oma, although it does sound good for her in a way.