Cass - you made me laugh - what a stage that one is!! Hope you get some sleep soon...
We also dont have a will or anything - think we would want BIL and SIL to take boys, though not sure how they would feel about that with 2 of their own at the same age... its an awful thing to think about. i am sure DH parents would assume it should be them.. and of course i would be more comf w my mum... hmmm.... to think about.
all this news on BB has been sad... dont think i have found the thread re lulu...

we are back from hols -was wonderful and just what we all needed... back to work tomorrow....
bbl to catch up mnore.