I don't like it either Cass. Now that E is starting to develop, clothes are a big issue for me atm. She has visible (though small) breasts when wearing clothes and her shape is starting to get more curves :/ so what she wears needs to be (IMO) something that looks nice, but also make it clear that she's still only 10, not 16 kwim? Although I think it's going to be P that has the problem. Since she's started filling out a bit, I think she is going to be physically more like me - she's not even 9 and already she has breast buds whereas E was well over 9, closer to 10. I don't want my girls to be wearing B-C cup bras in year 6 and have to deal with the stigma that goes along with that.