Michelle - I really hope your MIL can be helpful to you this time. Maybe just keep asking her to do stuff and she will get the hint? Uno... throw the washing basket at her a couple of times Sorry to hear you aren't feeling the best.

Dee- I hope Matthew can start sleeping longer for you soon. I know you have probably heard it 1000 times but the first 6 weeks are pretty hellish. It will soon start falling into place.