Bek - look after yourself! Can you dh look after the kids and allow you time to go shopping or get your hair done or something for you? I escape to the shops for an hour every couple of days and it's great.

Nikki - I'll be in Melb from the 23rd to the 28th at this stage (busy on 24,25 obviously!) My family is in Montmorency (20 k NE of city), but I'll have use of Mum's car so can travel anywhere. My mobile no is 0410 687 634 if that helps for you to have it when organising stuff.