Hi Kelly,

I'm feeling a bit distrustful of the medical profession after my birth experience (which I'm sure contributed to the prolapse in the first place)!

Although I have sought 2 different medical opinions I wouldn't mind speaking to someone who has actually had the surgery done. Expecially as my physiotherapist has expressly advised me not to have it (which is easy to say if you don't have to live with it 24 hours a day)! She believes that the failure rate is too high.

I'm in a bit of a dilema - feel I can't continue to live with this, but am terrified of having the surgery!