I was wondering for those of you who have already had a child (or more) the second time around did you or are you planning on trying to limit the number of people who come and visit you in hospital?

After a c-section last time I had sooo many visitors and felt so overwhelmed.

I even had people who I'd never met before or had only met once or twice come in (to see DH)

I was talking to DH last night and suggested we only tell a few close friends and family this time and then announce it to everybody else once I'm home.

I also want to make the transition for DS very easy too.

What are your thoughts on this?