It's still early days so please try not to be too down yet

I could hardly do a pelvic squeeze 6 weeks post birth and at my checkup told the OB that it felt like everything had collapsed up there. He said just keep doing the pelvic squeezes because sometimes it takes longer for the nerve endings to heal. By 3 months it was all good and strong

I'm a HUGE advocate for pilates to help strengthen the pelvic floor and stomach muscles since I started doing it with a physio between my 2 and 3rd PG's.