Yes, I guess I need to be more realistic about what I can & can't achieve in that time. I eat pretty healthy, I think I need to watch portions, although am scared of calorie counting as I've been working so hard to breastfeed.
Kelly, I will look at that link now.

I don't expect to loose 15kg in 14 weeks but I need to be looking like a role model at least ie no jelly belly & toned. It makes me feel sick when I look in the mirror. I exercised all through pregnancy no 1, but had SPD this time round so was on bed rest for the last month of my pregnancy.

I will get there, it's nice to know I'm not alone. Thanks girls!!