oh far out! Thanks again to everyone for your info, it really does help. Although, now I'm just more confused than ever on what i should do! But that's ok, I don't want to rush into anything anyway, I'm gonna have to really do my homework on this one. I never thought about the implanon, thought that would be even worse than the injections... but now... hmmm, I dunno! lol.

Perhaps I shall just ask my dh if he's keen on abstinence.!!! hehehe... perhaps not.

Ok, thanks everyone.... if there are anymore women out there with stories to tell, I am still reading them keenly!

cya.