ooohhhh this is a terrible feeeling to me knowing we have to try sex again after giving birth c/s or vaginal.
all my kids have been vaginal births,so i know the feeling well i must say i think as much as it really does freeking hurt us ,i also think its got a lot do with our own heads I THINK OUR HEAD JUST REMEMBERS EVERYTHING IT JUST WENT THROUGH AND SAYS 'OH NO WAY THIS IS GONNA HURT'
then i think we also tense up tight knowing 'hey this is gonna hurt again lol'..
take your time hunny GOOD THINGS COME TO THOSE WHO WAIT LOL...
i made DH wait 6 mths , as soon as DD was 6 mths . i said " oh i suppose i better put out , youve been waiting long enough ! "
oh but really i was pining for it !!
i found it still hurt but prolly not as much as it would have done if we did it earlier ...
take it easy ... you already have him trapped .. no need to DTD all the time now
Smithy-I had to keep telling myself in me head "Just relax, just relax".
OP- I really wanted to do it and we tried at 4 weeks and no way was it going in, Hurt way too much!!
Tried again at 6 weeks and it again felt like it was going to hurt but was I think more in my head. I was in control by (sorry for way TMI) being on top. Once we got going, and I relaxed it didnt hurt, It just felt weird and I didnt like it (or really enjoy myself) and I am hoping it gets much better as time goes on and we do it a few more times.
ooohhhh this is a terrible feeeling to me knowing we have to try sex again after giving birth c/s or vaginal.
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