i had my baby 8 weeks ago and recieved 2nd degree internal tears. We tried DTD for the first time this morning and couldnt finish as it stung alot. also there is like a hard ridge type thing which is sort of getting in the way and DP says he can feel it too and that it is different down there. i thought it would be alright after 6 weeks as they say thats when to start up again, i waited an extra two weeks to be on the safe side and it seems that i may need to wait longer. how long until it stops stinging/hurting and is it normal to still be unable to DTD painfree at 8 weeks post partum?