Hollo - I had my bub 9 weeks ago, I received 4th degree tears up to and including the inside of my anal area, at my OB appointment at 3 weeks post birth I was told that when we go to DTD for the first few times it will be uncomfortable but should never be painfull.
My DH had a great thought about this whole situation, knowing I`d be nervous and tense up etc, etc, etc that was for him to play around the area so I get used to the feeling and relax a bit with just his finger before we actually go to DTD. I have had an infection for the pass 5 weeks down in that area in the last 2 days it`s the first time I`ve been pain free down there since Adrian was born so DH thought it is now his chance to play around down there with a finger, I`m surprised at how much better it feels down there then what I had imagined LOL but still can`t DTD till my 3 month check up in 1 month`s time so he has to hold out for a bit longer.
After all this what I`m most likely saying is the same as Fi, massage whatever way you feel like it, your finger or DH`s
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