So quick history, DS1 just turned 2, labour was very fast and traumatic and I sustained a 3rd degree tear and some muscle damage that required immediate surgery, 10 weeks later DH and I were DTD no worries. Fast forward 14 months, DS2 arrives equally as fast just slightly less traumatic. I still sustained a 3rd degree tear just no internal damage and was stitched up on the table. DS2 is now 10.5 months and DTD is still hurting. I've started pretending to be asleep so DH doesn't try and start something and I hate myself for that. Is this normal? Or should I go see someone?