Kellxx - I was totally traumatised by my first birth and subsequent recovery from it. And it did take 7 months for me to be able to dtd again, but having said that within 6 weeks of having DS 2 (and another episiotomy) I was feeling great!

I don't want to say vaginal is better than C/S or vice versa at all, all I want to say is that the second time around is NO WAY near as bad as the first hun! So you never know, you might just surprise yourself at how well you bounce back - I did!