Mine is still painful now - DH is a bit disappointed that I sometimes have to tell him things are a bit painful. I can still feel the scar too, it hasn't healed nicely at all.
But then, he was the one who agreed to me being cut up without anyone informing me what was going on, why should I pretend I'm OK due to his mistake?
Sorry it`s still painfull for you, I had a 4th degree tear which then got infected, it took 5 months to heal and a long time after that for it to feel okay when DTD, even now 2 years later if things aren`t well lubricated down there it`s still painfull, the main thing to remember is to use lots of lube when attempting to DTD
i had an episiotomy and tore with my first. and still now can feel the scar from the episiotomy but not from the tear..
i have had another child in the mean time too.
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