Linda - Hugs to you believe me it does get better, like you I was so proud of my Matthew bump but afterwards ewwwwww I felt so down at times mainly becuase I couldn`t fit into anything except for my maternity clothes for a good 8 weeks post birth, once I went out and brought some new 'normal' clothes I felt so much better, I still got a bit down at times with my stomach as I`ve never had one before but not at 5.5 months post birth my tummy is almost gone and all I`ve done is breastfeed and feed my face LOL

Give it time and you`ll get there