Hmmm, well DH and I wanted a week to bond with baby and DH wanted 2 weeks before anyone else held the baby... I've had to put my foot down with our families (parents and siblings) very hard and... we're seeing them the day after. But at least everyone else will be waiting longer... well, everyone else being DH's uncle as my family won't visit anyway, too far away, and it will be March before they do see the baby then.

I'm telling the grandparents first, then friends who can't visit (like everyone here!) then finally people who may visit a couple of days afterwards. But with my social calendar, some people may guess why I'm not around.