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  1. #1
    Registered User

    Dec 2007
    Victoria
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    9 months. Bled for only a couple of weeks, not evem but had a c/s and absolutely NO interest whatsoever while Bump was BF hardcore overnight etc.

    ETA: But I also had below zero libido while I was pregnant too, so the poor guy didn't get any for about 16 months!
    This time though, have raging libido, so who knows lol Hopefully for him, all goes well and will be back in the saddle within a couple of months lol

  2. #2
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    Dec 2008
    Brisbane, QLD
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    ETA: But I also had below zero libido while I was pregnant too, so the poor guy didn't get any for about 16 months!
    It was/ is the same for us. I am soo not interested. We DTD about 3 times when preg, and about 4 times since birth. So about 7 times in the last 22 months!

  3. #3
    Registered User

    Jun 2009
    Victoria
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    3 weeks with number 2, I had tearing and stiches but all was ok by the 3 week mark. With DS1 we waited almost 6 months but I also had other complications as well.

  4. #4
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    Mar 2006
    4,542

    With DD I had an epis and we back into it within 3 weeks and exactly the same with DS . We just couldn't wait any longer and we had no probs at all.

  5. #5
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    Oct 2008
    Newport, VIC
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    It was under 2 weeks. Pretty gentle at first. I had a first degree tear and 2 stitches.

    However whilst we were having sex so soon after I would say it wasn't until about 4-5 weeks that all was back to normal in the DTD department.

  6. #6
    BellyBelly Member

    Oct 2007
    Ever so slowly going crazy...
    2,268

    Boy, do I feel like a skank!!!
    Was under a week for each of them...
    DS 5 days
    DD 6 days.. ( had 1 stitch for a small cut)
    DS 4 days
    DS 4 days
    DS 6 days ( made me stay in hossy for 2 nights, and was expressing every 2 hrs)
    DD 3 days

    I bleed HEAPS in the first 24 hrs, then its all practically gone, so very lucky there... its slow and gentle, but when its been more than a few days, we dont last too long anyway....

    Most of my friends wait the 6 wks, but I have one girlfirend who is similar to me too...