Olive, yes, I am in Melbourne - can you recommend someone wonderful?

2CM, don't be embarrassed! I am not embarrassed as such, just avoiding having to get my undies off for a stranger! Speaking to girlfriends and reading the responses to this thread, you and I are not alone in suffering from some urinary incontinence.

HotI, I think a diary would show that I go to the loo approximately 10 times per day, which I think is far more than most women? I just can't hold it very long. I also can't stop midstream very effectively. When I feel like I am done, I lean forward to completely empty my bladder but I still often stand up and discover, oops, not quite done yet! DH tells me that sex feels the same to him, but I don't honestly think he would tell me otherwise! DTD certainly isn't as satisfying for me as it was pre kids.

I had a look at the Kegelmaster, it seems to have mixed reviews. I have just ordered a Pericalm and probe. Reviews all seem excellent. One of my concerns with the Kegelmaster is my doubt that my pelvic floor muscles are actually strong enough to effectively use it. The Periform uses an electrical impulse to stimulate the correct muscles. All the reviews I could find were excellent. It needs to get here from the UK, but I will certainly update my progress for you, 2CM, and anyone else who is reading but too shy to post!

I'm happy to talk about it, just don't want to 'show' anyone!