i`m just after your views on the mini pill, good and bad.

We have been using condoms and DH is just putting up with them because I thought that was the best option for us but to tell the truth I don`t like them either, we have come across the latex free ones and they feel much better but condoms still take the spark out of something enjoyable, I`m having problem with my libido and it at times takes an effort to reach my peak, then I have to sit back and twiddle my thumbs waiting for DH to put the raincoat on so we can resume where we were which at times DH has to start all over again to warm me up, luckily I have an understanding husband who tries his best

Anyway I was worried about falling pregnant if I went onto the mini pill (Lucy I was thinking of you here LOL), yes I do want more children but not right at this moment, anyway after some searching the mini pill is actually more reliable then I first thought, I thought it was something like 89% reliable but they say it`s 96 - 98% unless of course you take the tablet too late.

I`ve only ever been on the combined pill before Matthew was born and I didn`t really like it with my many mood swings and breakthrough bleeding, so I`m just after your views, what was it like being on the mini pill - moodswings, libido, bleeding.

Take Care

Dee