It *could* be a cystocele, a slight bladder prolapse, but only a doctor can diagnose. I'm going to PM you a link to a pic so you can get the mirror out and have a look, the peeing and nothing coming out might be something, but it might be nothing.

You can do Mayan womb massage to help. Lie on your back, with and empty bladder and bowel. Oil your tummy (rose oil is nice and good for your skin too), cup your hands and using the whole of the sides (so, wrist - littlest fingernail) draw straight lines from your pubic bone up to level with your belly button, in a fan shape from the pubic bone up, so pubic bone to right hipbone, pubic bone to mid-belly between hip and belly button, pubic bone to belly button, pubic bone to mid-belly between belly button and left hip, pubic bone to left hip. Back and forth go, pressing firmly but not hurting yourself. If your bowel is full or gassy this can be painful so watch out for that. This massage can help "lift" your insides if you do it everyday, but you really need to do the kegels to strengthen up the insides so they can support it all.

Will send the pic link now.

Bx