congrats on your little girls ladies!!

I'm currently 39 weeks, so can't comment personally on lack of libido post childbirth, but mine disappeared within about 10 seconds of becoming pregnant! And I was so hoping for the wonderful preggi libido surge that I've heard so much about! Poor DP... I think he's kinda hoping that I'll go overdue so that we can DTD in the name of getting this little guy out into the world.

I know that it's hard not to, but don't feel guilty - your libido will come back when it's ready! Possibly this is a bit TMI, but if you feel that you'd like to do something to "make DP happy" (so to speak), perhaps try something that doesn't involve actual intercourse until you feel 100% ready for it.

Don't be surprised if you need a bit of physical 'space' at the moment whilst your body and mind adjusts.