Okay, fine, its about a vagina :)

[Jaycee]

Relaxing during sex is the key as well as lube. Having said that, I had a small tear which required stitching and it took almost a year for me to relax and for sex to feel "normal" again. You'll get there hun

[CrazyLady]

I had issues relaxing my pelvic fkoor post bub as well. Sometimes if I am tense still I can get some discomfort but I am pretty sure it's because i'm tense. I would go see your dr about it though hun, it might look healed but stuff is still knitting back underneath iykwim.

HTH

[~Hestia~]

Although I didn't have stitches, sex was pretty painful for me for many months. It just gradually got better and more comfortable. I don't think it completely went away until DS weaned!

So you're definitely not alone! I hope it gets better for you soon

[angelaartsstudent]

You are NOT the only one!!!

I literally tear myself a new one every time DH even tried to get close to it, and it's 19 months post birth!

Here's the insane thing - I literally tore myself trying to get the swab for the Strep test up there!!!

I have no vagina (well, not much of one, anyway)! :-(