I think 6 weeks is a guide... I was having penetrative sex sooner than that, (less than two weeks after DS2). I think the risk is of infection, the same reaosn they tell you not to use tampons. I don't think a non-penetrative orgasm would hurt
Thats what I think too. Its more about the risk of infection etc. I was nowhere near ready at that timeframe Well done on the natural birth with no tearing!!! You must be super proud