thread: Pain when DTD...TMI warning....

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  1. #1
    BellyBelly Life Subscriber

    Feb 2006
    melbourne
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    get some sylk, best lube i have ever used!!

  2. #2
    Registered User

    Oct 2006
    Sydney NSW
    4,837

    I know my mum had dryness and pain problems when she had oestrogen issues and she used to buy wild yam cream which was natural.
    I used to find I was the same as you describe just after AF for some reason, had to use lots of lube to cope!

  3. #3
    Registered User

    Mar 2007
    Perth, WA
    528

    yep - definately an oestrogen issue - we ar ehaving the same probs and did with Willy. My lovely dr presribed me oestrogen in the form of the gorgeously titled 'vagifem' and i'm sure you can guess where you have to stick it!!!!! I've only been using it a few weeks and have yet to try dtd since starting it but am praying it helps. Apparently it's to do with bf so my dr tells me which makes sense as i was unable to bf my fist and had no probs with him but fed my 2nd and was still having probs 10 months after his birth (c/s too) and now Isla - bf and probs. Not stopping the bf though just using the extra oestrogen.

    good luck
    Julie x

  4. #4
    Registered User

    Jan 2007
    7,197

    Oh wow - thanks so much ladies. I really hope something will help so i will let my GP know that this is what I think it is Heehee! He really is lovely but a bit clueless at times. Just out of curiosity does it happen when you are breastfeeding or is it a general pregnancy thing??

  5. #5
    BellyBelly Member

    Feb 2007
    On the beautiful Gold Coast!
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    ok, I'm thinking something different to everyone else based on my own experience...

    I had painful sex since I was a teenager & finally after having DD I went & saw a Dr. I was hoping after having a baby vaginally I would have "stretched" down there & sex wouldnt hurt anymore. But it did.

    The Dr sent me to see a gyno. The gyno said it sounded like Endometriosis. He sent me for a laparoscopy & sure enough found endometriosis. he removed it at the same time. I ended up having 3 operations that day LOL

    Can you see a gyno & mention my case & ask if they could check for endometriosis?

  6. #6
    Registered User

    Jan 2007
    7,197

    Thanks Danielle, I might mention it but I have never had problems prior to having Izzy. It all started after my c/s with her and when we tried to DTD at around 5 weeks post c/s so it makes me think it is pregnancy/birth related.

  7. #7
    BellyBelly Member

    Feb 2007
    On the beautiful Gold Coast!
    1,930

    no worries, I just wanted to mention it

  8. #8
    Registered User

    Mar 2008
    In my own twisted little universe
    1,046

    get some sylk, best lube i have ever used!!

    i second that - it's made from kiwi fruit i think - it's the only lube that doesn't give me thrush!