Keep the faith, it will happen...you might need some extra help if you're having problems judging whether you're doing the exercises right...that loss of sensation can make it a bit trickier. Believe it or not there are physios & nurses who deal specifically with female problems like this - so might be worth chatting with your dr and finding one.
BTW I doubt your DH will ever notice the difference...let's face it, if it's been a while, it's unlikely there will be any complaints
junglemum - i am trying to do it more often! the loss of sensation makes it a bit hard tho, it discourages me a bit!
Marydean - hahahaha you prob have a point there! however........... WARNING TMI comming up so look away if you want..... DH said after DD1 things were much "tighter" than ever before so i worry he will definatly notice the difference this time and i already no longer feel attractive after having 2 babies so i don't need to know that things arn't as good down there as they use to be IYKWIM?!
And apparently i am doing it right, but it needs work! i think at my pap smear i might ask about it than if still not good enough i might liike into asking for some help!
Are you walking heaps? I noticed mine got alot better when i walked heaps. And i couldnt feel them properly for about 3 months. whenever i peed i would feel like it was all going to fall out and i couldnt sit on the floor as it hurt too much.
Give your body time to recover and as for a difference my DP noticed a difference but he said it was better but now i am tighter (TMI) then i was before
Thanks KaileysMummy! haven't done much walking due to all the rain but its starting to clear up so will certainly get back on it!
I don't have any issues pee'ing however in saying that i haven't felt a "busting" urge to go for ages! i wonder if that has anything to do with it? i never feel like i need to go - i just think i haven't been awhile so i go!
Hmmm i think i might stay away from DH for awhile! Until things get better!
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