hey guys, thanks for your replies.
Had my appointement yesterday afternoon, didnt go too well....

The female doc I usually see wasnt there so I saw another femals doc, who expressed surprise at me still BFinf DS () then went on to say that it probably is ovulation pain, heres the pill, it will probably dry up your milk but hes a big boy he doesnt need it anymore now.... if after being on the pill for 3 months, I still have pain she will look into it further!

I m kinda like what???

I just left, I couldnt be bothered arguing with her, DS had just had his immunisations and was not happy, so I will just go see my normal doc next week I think.
Im really peeved about it though, for one, why would I want to stop BFing? why would I want artificial female hormones coursing through my milk and into my male DS, and two why give me drug therapy to stop something that "may" be the cause, what happens when I stop taking the pill?? (not that im going to take it!) I go thru all that pain again, so then they can find the underlying cause?? urghhhh!! so unhappy with med profession!