thread: its just not the same...

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  1. #1
    BellyBelly Life Subscriber

    Feb 2006
    melbourne
    11,462

    Unhappy its just not the same...

    my poor vagina shes just not looking how she used too, to be honest i cant remember what she did or what she should look like anymore.
    i find it a little sad that i deem her 'broken' 'unfixable' .
    she wasnt right after DD1's birth i guess not really any worse after DD2's birth, just.... not any better (not that i thoought she would be) im even finding DH seeing me embarassing now, it doesnt bother him, just me, surely im not the only one 'broken'
    how do others deal with this issue???

  2. #2
    Registered User

    Dec 2008
    8,986

    I used to get quite upset about it too. I was at the point of wanting corrective surgery but too embarrassed to see a Dr about it.

    Lately though i haven't thought about it.

  3. #3
    BellyBelly Life Subscriber

    Feb 2006
    South Eastern Suburbs, Vic
    6,054

    Tis not something I tend to mention on a public forum, but babe, I hear you. xo

  4. #4
    BellyBelly Life Subscriber

    Feb 2006
    melbourne
    11,462

    i wouldnt normally either nelle, but i figured i cant be the only one feeling like this!

    tinks i do too, but wont because i couldnt go through the pain again

  5. #5
    BellyBelly Member

    Oct 2008
    Over The Rainbow
    1,142

    I kno wat you mean hun i want my old one back

  6. #6
    Registered User

    Oct 2006
    home sweet home.
    1,995

    Me too. I know exactly how you feel.

  7. #7
    Registered User

    Jan 2007
    where cosmopolitans and margaritas flow all night
    2,794

    I feel the same.