it's hard to get used to and I don't look at mine near as much as I used to (not that it was very often to begin with LOL) but I don't think there would be a single woman who has had a vaginal birth that can truly say her vagina is 100% the same as it was before she gave birth. even if you didn't tear it still changes and i think if women don't think it has, it would be more than likely due to them not quite being able to remember exactly what it looked like before kwim? I don't see it as being broken or unfixable, but more like it's a rose in full bloom now instead of a bud in half bloom.