Yep, just as the title says. My Hoo Haa is till very very tender.

We have only managed an attempted dtd once since Abbey was born and she is 8 months old. It nearly killed me, my insides felt raw. Yes we used lube and tried to take it easy, but it made no difference. Felt like he was using a wire brush !!

Anyways, that was enough to put me off and he's got nothing since.
Jump forward to yesterday and my first AF since Abbey was born is beginning to make an appearance. I hate using pads so decided in my wisdom to use a tampon. BIG mistake.
Not only did it hurt going in, I could feel it the whole time. I ended up taking it out and the pain removing it was shocking. I was so close to just leaving the damn thing in there (I wouldn't, but ykwim).

I never tore when I gave birth. Atleast not that I know of. Does this happen to anyone else and why is it happening ? I cannot go on with my fanny feeling so damn sore if it gets touched.

One day it would be nice to have a sex life again.