I said I wasn't ready for my baby to be born for a couple of different reasons.

As far as at home went I was ready, had the cradle all set up & clothes organised.

But as far as physically being ready there was no way I was anywhere near ready. My waters broke at 31wks & I can still remember the midwife asking if we had bags packed (I had to be flown to Melbourne to have our baby) to which the answer was a resounding "NO" ~ I mean I thought I stil had 3wks of work left & plenty of time to pack bags. She also asked if I'd been to antenatal classes & that was very firm "NO" as well. Was due to start them the week that James was born.

So while I was ready to be a mum ~ we had tried for 3yrs to concieve James so was definetely ready to be pg ~ I also was no where near organised for how things turned out.