After having 4 reasonably large babies, mines not as bad as it could be. I had no muscle separation with any of mine which has been a huge plus in terms of overall recovery. I do have a lot of stretchmarks, but they don't worry me - I'm not in the habit of showing anyone my stomach except dh so it's not an issue. I do have a belly and I do have an overhang, but then I always had a belly - even when I weighed under 70kg I still had a small pot belly because that' what my body shape is. It would be a lot better if I lost the extra 20kg i'm carrying though and maybe that would make it look worse, but meh, it's only skin. There are worse things I'm dealing with atm so a battered looking stomach is the least of my worries.