- i looked in a little mirror to see my baby's head crowning and i am still traumatised from it ( not recommended)
-The after pains especially when breastfeeding
- Heavy bleeding like you've never seen (make sure you have black comfy knickers)
- ice packs or even frozen water filled condoms for your vag to soothe any pain after
- I had a natural birth no tearing or stitches but it still looked horrendous after blisters and swollen i was very worried but it did go back to normal quickly
- really spongy belly i still had a little belly 6 months on
-dtd was a little uncomfortable but just tell your partner to go jump if they pressure you
but it did get better and back to normal for me