I'm totally with you beansbeans and I only have one BFing DD and one horny DH, lol
More sleep
More quality/talking time with your partner
More affection/touch from your partner
Your partner being more attentive in the bedroom
More help around the house (from partner or other)
More time with girlfriends / own passions or hobbies
More alone time
Your partner improving his physical appearance
If I had better self esteem / less self conscious
Want more recovery time / nervous about pain
I'm totally with you beansbeans and I only have one BFing DD and one horny DH, lol
Sleep.
Hands down, 100%, sleep.
Easily, sleep. If I'm going to bed for anything, it's sleep! I also get distracted easily by the housework, so if I'm not sleeping when baby is I'm cleaning the house, but DH sees baby nap times as our sexy times. The one about more touch and affection from DH - it's the opposite for me. I have a baby/toddler on me all day, DH constantly throws in touches the entire day that frankly get quite annoying, and I just want to be left alone for a bit before I'm ready to be touched at all.
So, I need to be fully rested, in a clean house, with no one touching me lol.
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