Thanks Rosehannah.
I didnt have tearing but i did have grazing and it hurt non-stip for about 6 weeks.
I have spoken to DH about it and he says not to worry and that he is worried etc etc, but i still feel like i am denying him DTD.
NOt that we arent at all... we do sometimes but i wish it was more often but i cant seem to relax... i get frustrated that he will be romantic etc and all i can think about is - if the baby is cold at night or did i hangout the washing, what will i cook for dinner tomoz....

that sounds so stupid! omigod