1. No more spontaneity - everything has to revolve around the baby's naps, feeds and play times. Sometimes we miss out altogether!
2. Having someone rely on me 24/7. I found BFing difficult in the beginning because I wasn't used to being responsible for keeping someone alive! I don't mind it so much now tho.
3. Time to myself. I am very much a home-body and, previously, I used to spend entire days by myself just pottering around (until DH came home). Now there is always someone with me.
4. Not being able to go to bed when I want to. Some nights I could sooooo crash at 8pm but I can't because Gabby needs to wake up, have a play, have a bath, have a bottle and be put back in bed. Also, having to get up every single day when the baby decides it's time to get up. No more sleep-ins!
5. I miss my bourbon! While I can still have 1 or 2, I do miss having a bit to drink down at the pub then having a good ole dance. I also miss being able to let loose at parties and have a great time. Still, most of my friend's have babies too so, even if I could party, I would be doing it on my own!
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