Oh dear hun no real advice here but I couldn't read and not respond... Hope everything works out ok for you... I hate to ask, but do you have an HPT??

I do remember that when I got AF back, DD was still fully BF, day and night, and I got one random period, which was a bit spotty, and then a longish amount of time, like 8wks maybe? when I didn't have AF... then I was back to 28 day cycles. So maybe it was a random hiccup bleed while your body gets used to ovulating/cycling again??

As for other contraceptives... my sister is getting an IUD put in as she doesn't like the mini pill. That could be worth investigating...