OK, bub is due in 10 weeks.
I want to make sure (if all goes well and we have a take home baby) that there is no future pregnancies after Beez.
Given my family history and the increased risk of DDs birth defect happening again we don't plan to have more than 2 kids.
I would love to get my tubes done, but I can't. For some stupid reason (which I understand) I can't get that done til I'm 30.
Which means I have a good 10 years of needing some other form of contraception. 10 years!
Vasectomy is completely out of the question, DH is 25 but I've watched a few men (including my father) go through follow up operations. 12 years on and my dad still has problems. They nicked a nerve during the op and things spiralled from there. I'm not risking DH going through that.
And besides, if something happened and DH and I divorced then it's me who finds pregnancy too stressful and dangerous.
The Pill (Levlen ED) made me a complete hormonal mess and I had rapid weight gain.
Microlut gave me weird bleeding.
Condoms are fine, but at a dollar a pop I don't want to be spending that much money for 10 years. Especially since I'm allergic to latex so have to buy more expensive ones.
I'm researching the mirena but I'm just wondering if there's many other options.
Yes, I plan to breastfeed for as long as possible but I want extra protection.
Thanks ladies.




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