After we had DD, we used condoms,family planning and withdrawal, though it didn't work so well, lol...DS1 was concieved when DD was 6mo and we had planned on at least a 2yr gap! After DS1, it was condoms, same for now, religiously. Regardless of where I am in my cycle. Admittedly, it's not that often we manage to DTD these days (1-2 times a week if that), so it's not too exxy at the moment. I am waiting for DH to bite the bullet and get a vasectomy. We agreed that after we had finished with babymaking, he would be the one responsible for the contraception. After more tahn 10yrs on hormonal contraceptions, over 4yrs of either carrying, birthing or feeding babies, it's time to give my body a rest.