I remember taking the mini pill after DD2 was born and I'm sure it added to my PND. The pill in general really affects my moods. I hate it.

DH is definitely going for the snip this time. He's still wrestling with the loss of his manhood (apparently!!) but fortunately he's seen the advantages of him doing that over the only alternative form of contraception acceptable to me at this point, ie he gets the chop or we never DTD again ;-)

I hope you find something that works for you.