Hi there ladies and gents of the agnostic/athiest beleif..... (and anyone else interested in reading this )

So... my dear sweet little DS has started primary school this year. And he came home the other day and asked me did I know that God made everything??????????????????????????????? (Except houses- people make them ) And that he made night and day???????

Now I am not silly- I knew this was going to happen, I had my doubts about school based religion and I know the simple answer is to pull him out of all religious classes... but that's not entirely what I want.. I want him to learn that there are many ideas out there that people believe in and I want his mind open to all forms of religious belief, but not to be taught that one answer or series of beliefs is the absolute truth. I know that I am not going to get this at a public school with out changing the entire curriculum (I have thought about this and it seems quite a big job) so any tips or ideas about what to do would be great!!!!

He is also in a very small school- and I asked him if during God lessons if anyone from his class isn't there for those lessons and he says no everyone is there, so I don't want to make him the odd one out and exclude him solely on my beliefs (which in itself goes against my beliefs)

So far in his life I have filled his little head with scientific facts- we know that there is night and day because the earth spins and rotates around the sun- and when it is dark here it is day some where else. We have talked about evolution and the fact that the world has seen many species of plants and animals come and go and change (he watches the walking with monsters/walking with dinosaurs series almost every night) and that people came from monkeys.

He knows I don't believe in God, and so far that's ok, he tells me he does believe in God- and so far that's ok with me ( i am thinking it is still on par with Santa and zombies so we can work on that later)- but the day he comes home and tells me I am going to hell for not believing we will have a problem!!! He loves the Egyptians so I mentioned to him that they didn't believe in just one god- but many, and so did a lot of other people- and he said that they must have been silly!!!

So ok, after much rambling, my big question is, how much do I let him learn?? Where do I step in?? Do I use it as helpful stepping stones for conversations?? Do I tell him what he is learning is wrong?????? My biggest worry is that the line get's confused for him. He goes to school to learn FACTS. To learn how to read and write and how to add and subtract. I don't want him to think the religious stuff is truth and at the same time I don't him to then question EVERYTHING a teacher teaches him because I am teaching him to question the religious stuff. And he is 5.. am I just projecting my issues on to him??????? Should I just go with the flow and wait for him to grow up a little bit before I pressure him about such things?? How have other agnostic parents dealt with this?????

Thank you for listening with open minds