i'd be keen to contribute and share on a thread like this too. don't want to offend anyone, but believe that our beliefs should be considered too. my belief system is pretty similar to ourlux's. never knew it had a name (thnks rory). would love to discuss it a bit more...sometimes it's hard to talk to people outside of my immediate family (dad and brothers) about this. in laws are catholics and i sense we're going to have a small problem coming up soon when it comes to them wanting to christen our child...