Teni one thing Jesus isn't a fiction character he did actually exist whether he is the son of god and was raised from the dead is something else entirely. Many historical sources besides the bible make mention of Jesus.
Its a tough one Leesh. Christmas is hard to avoid. I love Christmas as a time to celebrate my family and share the joy of giving. It would be hard if Shell wants to and you don't. I don't really have any advice for you.